Finally,

This board revision is perfect, RTC and battery is all working, will verify tomorrow once my ML2032s show up (the recharagable CR2032 variant) that the charging and everything holds.

But board is good, LCD 5.0" & 7.0" both now work, looks awesome.  I am very very impressed with JLCPCB manufacturing, and it only cost me $40 for the board!...and you got 5 of them :)

I'll update the schematics, eagle files, etc tomorrow... and hopefully in the next few days be posting the working code.