My future wife is awesome because she told me to just go ahead and buy the Ram it can be my early wedding gift from her. So just a few days ago i got online and found 8gb of Ram to replace my old 4gb of ram i had gotten for free. I am happy to report that my system is running better then it ever has. I was finally able to install many of the programs that I need to use this as my main system. Project Phoenix as taught  me a lot about PC repair but one thing this last bit has shown is that sometimes you have to spend the money on parts. The original goal of this project was to build a free pc but that was when it was just for fun and not for every day work. Now that I have moved passed the fun part and started to use the system everyday it needs to be reliable. so now that i have windows7 64 bit running on my pc, that meant it was time to upgraded my linux build too, but more about that next time.